Adopting tangible symbols of peace, hope, and nonviolent
resistance is a centuries-old practice. Ancient Greeks used an olive branch to
symbolize peace. A symbol of wishes granted for centuries, paper cranes have
symbolized hope and healing for 6 decades in Japanese culture. Peaceful
protesters in Taiwan use sunflowers to represent the light they wish to shine
on oppressive government policies. In Hong Kong, umbrellas symbolize peaceful
protest, and women in Iran frequently wear brightly-colored nail polish to
express their resistance to the extreme oppression they endure.
In April of 1940, just months into World War II, Adolf
Hitler set his sights on an invasion of Norway. Controlling their ice-free
waterways would make it quicker and easier to transport goods into
Germany. German soldiers occupied Norway for 5 years, insisting that teachers
and churches teach complete obedience to the leader and the state, passing
anti-Jewish legislation, and deporting 700 Norwegian Jews to Auschwitz.
In the autumn of 1940, students at Oslo University started
wearing innocuous paperclips on their collars and lapels to symbolize the
binding together of like-minded Norwegians in a rejection of ethnocentric ideologies,
peaceful resistance, and solidarity. Pins, bracelets, and jewelry fashioned out
of paperclips bound like-minded Norwegians together in the face of adversity.
In December 2014, an Iranian refugee took hostages in an armed
standoff in Sydney, Australia. By the end of the 16-hour ordeal, he had killed
2 hostages, prompting intense and violent Islamophobia to erupt across the
country. Australian Rachel Jacobs posted on Facebook that she saw a Muslim
woman remove her hijab out of fear for her own safety. Jacobs encouraged her to
put her hijab back on, promising to walk with her and make sure she was safe. Her
post prompted a social media campaign using #illridewithyou in which Australian
citizens offered to walk, ride, or sit with Australian Muslims so they would
feel safe and protected.
In post-Brexit United Kingdom, when there was a sharp rise
in unprovoked attacks and hate crimes against both ethnic minorities and immigrants,
a Twitter user named Allison, inspired by Australia’s #illridewithyou campaign,
started wearing safety pins to symbolize a rejection of racism, peaceful
push back against violence, and solidarity with immigrants. After tweeting
photos of her safety pins and explaining, in 140 characters or less, the meaning behind
the small gesture, the idea took off. Safety pins are commonly worn in the U.K.
as a signal to marginalized groups that they are valued and supported. Thousands
of U.K. citizens joined the #safetypin movement in a joint effort to
communicate to marginalized and sometimes victimized immigrants, “You are safe
with me.”
Since the 2016 general election in the U.S., millions of
American citizens are concerned – scared, even – about the seemingly sharp rise
in hate-based harassment, vandalism, violence, bullying, and crime being
perpetuated against U.S. citizens – citizens who are often labeled “minorities”
and are marginalized. As a result, the “Safety Pin Movement” has found a place
here.
Many criticize or even condemn the gesture for being superficial
and shallow, calling those who wear the pin “slacktivists” – a pejorative term
used to describe people who think of themselves as social justice activists,
but who only get involved with “easy activism” and “feel-good measures” such as
signing on-line petitions or sounding off on social media websites, not the
hard work of stepping out of our comfort zones to participate in street
demonstrations, visit elected officials to demand change, or support organizations
that actively work to affect social change with ongoing financial contributions.
In other words, safety pin wearers are often criticized for doing something
easy to “pat themselves on the back” without doing the hard work of actively
trying to fix the problems they are peacefully protesting.
White people, in particular, are facing backlash for wearing
safety pins as a passive and elitist action – an easy way to identify
themselves as allies while doing none of the hard work it takes to help affect
change. Christopher Keelty said in the Huffington Post, “We don’t get to make ourselves
feel better by putting on safety pins and self-designating ourselves as allies.
And make no mistake, that’s what the safety pins are for. Making white people
feel better.” Others have criticized safety pin-wearers as lazy, saying they
are being worn as a way for white people to identify themselves to other white
people as having voted -- or not voted -- a particular way in the most recent
general election in the U.S.
I acknowledge the limitations of this gesture or symbol.
Wearing a pin doesn’t fix racism, xenophobia, exclusion, or cruelty. However, despite
the sharp criticism and safety-pin shaming, I wear a safety pin and will
continue to do so. Here’s why:
- It is a concrete symbol that bigotry, racism, misogyny,
xenophobia, and bullying are not the norms in my circles, and I will actively
take a stand against those ideologies in all their forms. If it reminds even
one other person to actively stand for inclusion, acceptance, empathy, and kindness,
it’s worth wearing.
- I will actively take a stand against those ideologies in all
their forms. I will not just wear the pin – I will attend the demonstrations,
write my elected officials, contribute financial support to organizations
actively working to affect change. Wearing a safety pin reminds me to actively
be the change I want to see in the world, and if it reminds even one other
person to do the same, it’s worth wearing.
- Awareness is important. Awareness by itself doesn’t change
things. It isn’t enough. It doesn’t solve problems. However, if enough people
work together to raise awareness and use that awareness to dialogue about what
we can actively due to help shift cultural norms, then awareness can lead to
action, and action changes things. If my safety pin reminds me to act and
inspires even one other person to act, it’s worth wearing.
- Brain research shows that telling people what to do isn’t as
effective as showing them what to do and how to do it. If enough people use
their sphere of personal influence and social media influence to demonstrate actionable
steps we can take toward inclusion, kindness, empathy, and acceptance, we can
create social change. If my safety pin prompts even one person to ask why I
wear it, and leads to even one discussion about the ACT in activism, it’s worth
wearing.
- Pinning this symbol to my clothes is a small gesture of
community, participation, rejecting self-centeredness and apathy, being part of
something bigger than my own little space in this world. If it symbolizes that
to even one other person, and encourages them to share in this sense of
community and togetherness, it’s worth wearing.
- Knowledge is power. Some don’t understand the symbolism
behind the safety pin, or the importance of real activism. If even one dialogue
is sparked by a question about my pin, it’s worth wearing.
- Helplessness, hopelessness, and despair are paralyzing, and
we are flooded daily with media stories that incite these emotions. If wearing
my pin symbolizes help, hope, and healing to even one person, it’s worth
wearing.
- Wearing a safety pin is not enough, but it may be enough to
remind us to ask ourselves and one another what else we can do. It’s not a
resolution – but it may be a start. It may lead to work toward a resolution. If my pin inspires even one person to ponder
this, it’s worth wearing.
- Wearing a safety pin may indicate to a person who lives in
fear of being marginalized, bullied, or victimized that I am a safe person. If
I witness someone being bullied or victimized, I will not be a silent
bystander. I will stand with them and for them. I will help. If my pin conveys
that knowledge -- that safety -- to even one person, it’s worth wearing.
- Wearing a safety pin may instigate dialogue with students and colleagues about the importance of active inclusion and kindness, and if even one student or colleague is inspired to think about these concepts, have these important conversations, act on these values, it's worth wearing.
So, when you see my safety pin, please don’t assume I wear
it out of privilege or guilt or an effort to assuage my guilt. The truth is, I
understand first-hand what it’s like to be marginalized and bullied for one
facet of the thousands of facets that make up who I am as a whole person. Even
though on the outside, I may not “look” like a person who understands and
experiences marginalization, I do. I hope I would stand with and for
marginalized people even if I wasn’t a person who experienced this myself. I
know my own experiences make me acutely aware of and responsive to others’
experiences. My other truth is, in some ways, I do experience privilege that
others don’t enjoy. I am acutely aware of this and in the ways I am privileged,
I will use that privilege to tirelessly work for inclusion and equality for
all.
When you see my pin, please don’t assume it is the only
thing I am doing. Don’t assume I am lazy, or a slacktivist. Don’t assume I’m
not serious about intentionally and actively affecting change. Don’t assume I wear
it to make myself feel better. In fact, I want anyone and everyone who is
negatively affected by hatred, exclusion, or “othering” in any form to know I
stand with them, for them, beside them, behind them, in front of them – whatever
it takes – and knowing there is a need to stand against exclusion and for
inclusion breaks my heart. I don’t feel better about myself by putting the pin
on – I feel worse for all of us that there is a need to put the pin on.
When you see my pin, please don’t assume you know how I cast
my vote. I believe acceptance, inclusion, and kindheartedness can bridge the
gap between our differences, no matter whom we voted for and why. Despite
political differences – despite all differences – we can find some common
ground, stand with one another against bigotry, hatred, injustice, and othering,
and stand together for compassion, empathy, and kindness.
When you see my pin, please don’t lash out at me for
attempting to show solidarity and support. Instead, please consider that wearing
the pin is a statement of my personal values . . . inclusion, acceptance, compassion,
empathy, and kindness. But if you do judge me, if you do think poorly of me, if
you do criticize me when you see my pin, know that those values – conveying them,
reminding myself of them, inviting others to dialogue about them -- are so dear
to me that I will wear a safety pin despite the controversy. Kindness matters,
and if wearing a safety pin conveys encouragement to even one person who needs
to feel a little kindness today, it’s worth it.
